so I have been slightly curious as to just what all it means to try and conceive a child, for research reasons only. Because at some point in my life possibly even with your someone I feel would want to have children with me. So I have been asking random small sized questions on a group that for people that have the interest in convincing children I have now had to make very clear to the people in that group this only research that I am not planning on going and fucking random people to get pregnant i just wish to know all the options I might have for if I want to indeed have a child sometime in the near or present future.
the reason I have had to explain myself is I guess these women have been parents for a lil too long cause they keep taking the parental view of we should make sure this girl really knows what she is getting into before she decides she wants to have a kid. And yes I know this people mean good and well but for christ sake I am not a teenager I am nearly 30 damned years old! I think the idea of someone my age thinking about possibly having children is a reasonable one if I was to ever actually want them. And all I have said is that i want to read a few books about the subject and possibly discuss the idea with a doctor. I know I sound more upset then anything, but I am not its just a mild irritation at best.
and its kind of just retarded that people think people my age must not have any common sense at all, and actually to be honest amusing. Its the same concept as teen going into a doctor and talking about using condoms, or finding out info stds she is not saying she wants them, or that she necessarily is screwing someone that very moment all its is a want of information and this one of the primary reasons people get into things way over their heads in the this country cause they don't encourage thinking ahead their main thought process is think of it when it happens, why would you need to be prepared.
so there is my little rant for the day sorry dear, I know I sound mad, I really am not just blown away with how silly and stupid people are even you tell them falt out what your intent really is. But then again thats why I watch things like Jerry Springer cause dumb people can be interestingly funny at times.
